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HOW DID I GET HERE? WELL, IT STARTED WITH GOOD INTENTIONS..
I got into rather accidentally because I saw a chance to do something constructive. When concerns about Eat Predators started surfacing, I went back to Alexa Nikolas’ “Groomed by the Groom” series and still could not make sense of the accusations. I searched YouTube for a careful review and found nothing. That is when the idea formed.
I planned two introductory videos, one on the Eat Predators controversies and one unpacking the Milosh Instagram series. The goal was to set up a third video that would model something I care about: facts and empathy can stand together. People can be unlikable, messy storytellers, lack credibility in some areas, or struggle to explain trauma, yet still be harmed. If we can validate specific claims with records, doing so strengthens the credibility of survivors overall. I truly expected the divorce documents to confirm most of everything Alexa said about their marriage and divorce.
They did not. When I finally obtained the filings, they did not align with what had been said publicly. At that point I had a choice: share what I found, carefully and respectfully, or walk away and pretend I had not seen it. I chose to tell the truth. Not to discredit anyone, but because integrity is what should matter most, always, even when it's uncomfortable.
Since then I have been accused of everything from collusion to cruelty. For the record, I have no connection to anyone involved. I followed the evidence where it led, even when it took me in unexpected directions and made me feel uneasy. The same was true when I reviewed the protective order filings. I approached them with an open mind. I expected some exaggeration, not outright contradictions. Again, the documents drove my conclusions. I am just a person who could not find a video, so I made one.
I have also learned that many people genuinely want real, careful work. It may be a small number, but the 162 of you have encouraged me to keep going because the effort has value. Thank you.
This will not persuade those who have already decided I am biased or unkind. For those who have stayed open and engaged, I hope it clarifies how we got here. I did not set out to undermine or discredit anyone. I set out to show that truth seeking and empathy are not opposites. It just so happens that when you look at both sides, you sometimes find victims where you least expect them.
If you value advocacy and claim to prioritize nuance and empathy, I ask only this: before assuming bad faith, consider intent, method, and sources. I take no pleasure in exposing inconsistencies because that was never supposed to happen. That said, hold the person who spread false claims accountable, not the person who uncovered them. The simplest explanation fits here. I pursued the truth because that was the goal all along.
-Loky